T & P needed

So here i am this morning, constantly getting woken up by my son phoning me to come get him from school. His class is at the provincial woman's curling championship here in town & he had forgot his permission slip & was bored. He phoned twice, at 12:30 i said screw it & got up, i thought i would be able to go right back to bed. I am exhausted after the little sleep yesterday so that should be so easy right????

WRONG!!!

Most of you should remember back to the summer when my mom was sick, she hasn't been recovering well. Still swollen & in pain.

I had a text from my sister saying i should phone my mom. She wouldn't tell me why. I couldn't wait until after my mom got back from her hair apt so i kept my son waiting & phoned her, no answer, ran to get him figuring would have time to quickly phone her when i got back.

FFS she has to have another surgery. She has had major complications with all previous surgeries, same as me with all my surgeries, not one has gone just smooth. She has not had major major pain for a while, just a constant ache. Well this morning she took the chance the doc would see her & went to the clinic. Her stomach was protruding & hard. He never ran any tests but told her she had a hernia & would need another surgery.

They will send her to vancouver, which is good in the way that my sis lives there, garry can't afford to take all that time off work. If i can afford to be there, i will, but i have a job now & bills, before i had ei so i knew i had money coming in, i won't if i am not working so if it happens to be a week where i have lots of shifts i can't go be there. I know i shouldn't worry like i do but with what happened the last 2 times, both requiring a 2nd immediate surgery to fix mistakes from the 1st surgery i am a bit leary, especially since the one 6 months ago had her on life support.

I want her to get better for health reasons obviously, being sick for so many years & having multiple surgeries since then i know what she is going through. I couldn't get out of bed for 2 weeks after my stomach surgery like hers.

I also am a bit worried about the wedding, i can't cancel it or postpone it, i don't have the thousands to make up, but i want my mom there, she has no date, it will be a wait & see game & it could be months before she gets in. I hope not, i hope within weeks she is on the road to real recovery!


T & P needed & wanted.