My veil came in, it is Perfect!!! I can't wait, omg when i get to try on my whole outfit together i am sooooo going to ball, i have a blusher n that thing is staying on through the whole ceremony lol.
Today i went shopping, i paid bills first but next payday is the one that i have more bills on and with craven just a month away we needed some summer clothes both me n the fiance. I need 1 more pair of crop pants then i will be set. I got 3 tops, they are comfy & 1 is super light if it is hot out. I got a tan pair of Capri's that are actually pants last week so with a black pair i am set. I also got the fiance 2 new tank tops, his other ones are soooooo old and he wears them for PJ's n too the gym, not a look i want him to go for. I may get a new pair of PJ's, not sure yet though.
Tomorrow is my busy day, up at 7 am and will get home about 7pm i am expecting, then it is the beach boys on Thursday yay!!! I wanted to go to the city on Saturday but i now have a baby shower for a cousin of mine who is coming in from out of town for her sister's high school grad. We could not have one for her first baby as she lived way far away then, she lives 8 hours away now but it is not as bad as 24 hours as it was before. That will be exciting, though i am not looking forward to being around my gramma.
My gram is going to be soooooo mad, i want my son to come to craven with us, i do not drink that much and being that he is 12 he would have a blast, i wouldn't have to watch him like a hawk if he went to the bathroom or anything. She said he can't go cause it is going to be a drunk fest (not so and she knows nothing about it)
Well.............. there is a family reunion 2 weeks later, not sure if i am going, i can see how it will turn out. I am going to threaten her, i hate to do it but fair is fair, so i have too. She won't let me take him to craven 2 weeks before but fully expects me to allow her to take him to the drunk fest reunion (yes i actually know that is what it will be, always is, last time i had 3 drinks total the whole 4 days).
I am going to write her a letter stating enough is enough, i refuse to continue to be bullied & if she wants him to go to the reunion then she will have to let him come to craven, the choice is hers but if she doesn't then she can't take him, i have already talked to the courthouse & lawyer and she will be in breach if she takes him & arrested if i tell my lawyer, i don't want to go that far but she has used him to control me since he was little (no exaggeration) and i will not put up with it anymore. She is hurting him & she doesn't care. You can't tell a 12 year old boy his mother who has been fully involved all his life is suddenly no good because you got mad over something so stupid as time. (i brought him back earlier than i needed to on halloween but 15 mins later than she wanted)
That has to be so rough on you, and you're right - def rough on your son. He is going to have serious problems down the line if she continues to disrespect you in front of him. I think you should threaten the hell out of her and make sure she knows you have spoken to your attorney and that you will not hesitate to bring charges. Maybe you can make her see that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! She also sounds like a whack job! IMHO...
ReplyDeleteShe knows i have spoken to an attorney, she has received letters.
ReplyDeleteShe is a total whack job, worst part is she thinks she is doing NOTHING wrong. I have not spoken a word, phoned her, nothing unless i run into her in person in 8 months now & she phones my 1 cousin every day telling her how much i make her life a living hell. WTF are you on crack???
I have been a major player in my sons life his whole life & the worst part is she told me she is doing what is best for him but he had to beg her to go to the circus. WTF is she thinking, i don't get it. He told her (i could hear on the phone) that it is no wonder my mom is taking you to court. Insane.