stupid people

I am sorry if this title offends anyone, i don't mean it literally. Anyhoo i tend to get annoyed with people real fast, and not take crap, i pick my battles, i think i mentioned before that i have no problems giving up people, some of course hurt more than others but i would rather be alone than be treated like crap. There are some people i have never even said a harsh word too, like my best friend, we have never had a fight, known her since i was 17. Don't talk as much as i would like these days as i don't have a landline but still....... there are a couple more i have known for years that we have never fought either, so i can get along with people. I give the shirt off my back, over and over and over. I will help anyone if it is within my means too.

I am known to give pretty good advice, i say what i do and mean what i say, been around more than i ever should have in my 31 years, there are very few situations i HAVEN'T come across, i was even homeless myself in my younger years if it is by true definition. I have met alot of awesome people along my journey, and some not so awesome. I mentioned meg in an earlier post, from my teenage years, i will go back to an old post soon but for now i have to say.......STUPID BITCH, i won't call her a c*** as that to me is way too harsh of a word to call any woman, even if i hate you but boy sometimes i want too.

So i am on facebook all the time, maybe not literally but i get everything sent to my phone, so lately her statuses have been about how shitty her hidden bf (of 7 years, has single in her profile, they broke up a while back, i didn't know they were even dating, thought maybe roomates) was treating her, how he was saying she does nothing around the house, he not been paying bills etc etc etc, meanwhile she does it all. I am a firm believer if you put it in a blog, or status be prepared for what people have to say, whether you like it or not, otherwise seriously just shut it, unless someone is extremely rude, you put yourself out there take what you get. You don't have to agree with what i say, i can debate without turning mean, that comes later.

So today after she had called him a asswipe etc etc i said kick him out, still thinking it was a roomate. She went off on a tangent saying if she did that every time she was mad then she wouldn't have a relationship and that no one would if that was the way to resolve things. blah blah blah. I reply that when someone keeps disrespecting you that you have to draw a line, i won't put up with it and obviously we are in our 5th year so something is going right. that if you let a man (or woman) treat you like garbage your kids think that is the way to treat people. TRUST ME when i say kids whole heartedly follow your example 9/10 times and that it is about self worth rather than be demoralized. So then she responds with she remembers me having shitty relationships etc etc etc and goes off on a fucken tangent. Completely took everything i said in a whole nother way than what i even said or meant. One had NOTHING to do with another and anyone could have saw that. Gave me shit too for having this typing convo on her status.

HELLO you fucking dumb bitch, YOU put it on your status for the world to see how you get mistreated and the names you call your man and you have the nerve to turn it on me. FUCK YOU and grow the fuck up already. Yes i have had failed relationships, but what you are talking about was when i was UNDER 20, i am 31 now, hell of alot of difference between then and now in maturity and what i will put up with, i was still pretty niave then, and so i respond with the reason they are ex's is because i DIDN'T put up with it, for the record i have been the one to break off almost every relationship i have had, i think i been broken up with once, i left them when i had enough.

So i tell her to take care, that i was deleting her if she is going to get that offended over something SHE made public, not to bother looking me up when she makes a new profile as i won't re-add her again, adios. I deleted her, she had the fucking nerve to send me an inbox with something really personal in it, i didn't even read it when i saw the first line on my phone i deleted it, all for what? Because she didn't like what i said? Seriously if i could remember every single word it wasn't that bad, and i would have said the same thing to ANYONE, i don't believe in men & woman treating each other like shit, i am not talking about normal roadblocks either. Not paying any bills, or helping out in ANY way is a MAJOR one to me, my ex did that, and it is very hard to deal with, and have them say you don't do fuck all on top of that, thats harsh. So needless to say there is no chance of her finding my name again, she is blocked. Unless she makes a new act, in which case i don't think she will bother as i am sure she knows i don't play games, i didn't in that sense when i was 13, i don't now. Only difference is back then many people would get a shot to the face. I have grown out of the fighting even though some days i wish i could, but i don't have a criminal record and i am not going to get one now over some stupid person.

I am not perfect, no where close, i have lots of not so good traits, but i AM  good person. Not too long ago when we were laying in bed i said to my spouse, i WISH for once someone would think of me first, i am forever in a day putting others needs ahead of my own. He replied that i had too big of a heart, as much as i come across as uncaring, the problem is i care too much, and after what my sister did, which i will save for that time in the story, i will NEVER EVER again feel that kinda pain brought on by another person.

I am not a fucking babysitter, people get way too offended easy, i get offended myself but not over something as stupid as that, i get offended when you ACTUALLY do something to me. If i was your boss and you didn't like what i said would you talk to me like that? I THINK NOT or you WOULD NOT have a job. Point made!

ps....... if you don't like what someone says don't get fucking ignorant, that is what will make you lose friends faster than you can count, because ignorance is uncalled for no matter, personal shit should NEVER be brought into anything in a situation like that, last time someone brought up the situation meg referred too the only reason i did not punch her was cause of the kids around, criminal record or not, the time before that the chick went over the railing at the bar, i was 100% sober and don't remember doing it, but i threw her there, bouncer was beside me the whole time and stepped in front after that and i never even seen him. I phoned her social worker and said they better tell her to get her story straight cause the next time i seen her she was toast. She phoned and apologized after that for being so ignorant on something she was COMPLETELY mistaken about. It is the ONLY thing in my past that i will beat the shit out of anyone and never speak to them again over without caring about consequences.